Mario Lopez continues to promote his new underwear line…and I love it.
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How ironic that my blogging hiatus ends with the same person it began with, Chris Christie.
When I lasted updated this blog on January 9, I noted that the New Jersey legislature had decided to push a same-sex marriage bill even though Gov. Christie (R) had once threatened to veto such a bill. On Tuesday, the governor made it abundantly clear that he would indeed veto such a bill and he took the issue a step further — saying that the issue should be decided by referendum by the voters of New Jersey. Even though polls show that 53% of voters in New Jersey favor same-sex marriage, Christie knows that passage is never assured and he does not want to use his own political capital to do the right thing.
Though Christie is somewhat of a moderate, he has ambitions to one day become president, and conservatives within his party would never nominate a governor who signed same-sex marriage into law. So Christie pitifully punts the issue elsewhere.
Christie’s announcement on marriage came one day after he nominated an openly-gay man to the New Jersey Supreme Court. Bruce Harris would be the first openly-gay man on the state Supreme Court if confirmed.
So, this begs the question, how can Chris Christie be so progressive and open-minded on Monday, yet so closed-minded and foolish on Tuesday? It’s called politics. It seems that Christie has adopted the Obama model, which is to do just enough for the gays to avoid being called bigoted, yet refusing to extend the civil right of marriage. It’s the hallmark of a spineless politician.
As I’ve argued here many times, marriage is a civil right, and those who deny Americans civil rights are being discriminatory. It’s really as simple as that. Unfortunately, Barack Obama and Chris Christie are in the same discriminatory boat.
One final point. Republicans (and even some Democrats) always want marriage equality to be decided by the voters, instead of by legislatures. They argue that if the issue is so important and polarizing, then it should be decided by voters. This argument is nonsense for two reasons.
First, America is a representative democracy. This means that the people elect representatives to make tough decisions for them. Under this system of government, “the people” actually make almost no decisions directly. Keep in mind that in the United States, voters don’t even pick their president, the electors of the Electoral College have that responsibility. Politicians are OK with representatives raising taxes, starting wars and impeaching leaders, but ensuring civil rights is “too important” to leave to legislatures. That’s bullshit.
The second reason Christie’s argument is nonsense is because civil rights are at issue here. Since equality is already ensured in the Constitution, “the people” do not need to weigh in on civil rights matters. It’s already decided law that people should be treated equally. Under this established law, the majority can not discriminate against a minority. In fact, laws are meant to protect minorities from the “tyranny of the majority.”
In the 1960s, when our country was struggling with civil rights for blacks, it was determined that such laws would not be put to a vote in the South. If segregation had been put to a vote, blacks would still be sitting in the back of the bus and drinking from “colored” water fountains. Lawmakers decided unilaterally that blacks were entitled to equal rights, and that voting on such things was out of the question.
So, what’s changed? Why would we allow voters to decide if gays should have equal rights?
Equality does not come when the electorate decides it’s time. Equality comes about when our leaders, who are empowered by the voters, summon the courage to appeal to our hopes and not our fears. Equality comes about when visionaries see inequality and speak out against it forcefully.
Lyndon Johnson was a visionary; he was a forceful leader for change in the civil rights movement of the 1960s. Chris Christie is a contrarian; a political coward unwilling to stake out a position that might be difficult, even when civil rights are at stake. Only when our champion emerges, with the political will to fight for what’s right, will we get full equality.
Read MoreLawmakers in New Jersey have introduced a marriage equality bill, and they believe that they have enough votes to pass the measure out of committee and onto a full vote in the state Legislature. Even though Gov. Chris Christie (R) has said he will veto any such bill, state representatives and senators will advance the bill anyway.
If the Legislature does not have sufficient votes to override Christie’s veto, this seems like a pointless exercise to me. Why raise the hopes of so many gay people if the bill has zero chance of becoming law? To say nothing of the money we’ll waste on a public advocacy campaign.
In any event, here are our allies announcing their intentions.
Read MoreThe bigot known as Rick Santorum is after us, yet again. It is well-documented that Santorum hates gay people, and he never passes up an opportunity to bash us. Last year, he compared our relationships to incest and bestiality. Today, while holding a forum with college students in New Hampshire, Santorum let his hate and illogical position on marriage equality run freely. Watch:
As hard as it is to believe, this man is currently under serious consideration to become the leader of our nation. Santorum’s mean-spirited attacks on our community is stunning. It’s stunning that such blatant discrimination does not immediately disqualify him from consideration for president.
Though Santorum finished a close second in the Iowa caucuses on Tuesday, he has no realistic chance of becoming president. But things (and people) like this do have a silver lining for us. The vast majority of Americans do believe in basic fairness; and Rick Santorum’s views are extreme to most Americans. If he and the Republican Party continue to be viewed as so close-minded, that ultimately helps progressives who look sane by comparison.
Read MoreProving further that there is indeed a God somewhere, Mario Lopez is releasing his own underwear line…and he’s modeling the underwear! The new line is called “Rated M.” The Advocate interviewed him about the line, which you can read here.
Here’s the best exchange from the interview:
ADVOCATE: Seeing as how you worked with Elizabeth Berkley, I need to know your favorite scene in Showgirls.
LOPEZ: Oh, my God, I don’t think I remember it well enough to have a favorite. [Pauses] Probably one of the dancing scenes. Or when she called Versace “Ver-sayce.” [Laughs] Oh, wait — I remember! When she was in the pool and she was having what looked like convulsions! [Laughs]
And yes, those are wrenches on the wall behind Mario in the ad! You can’t make this stuff up.
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